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News - International

US reverses position on UN support for LGBT issues, GayPolitics.com.

The United States has reversed its position on a formal stance by the United Nations to universally decriminalize homosexuality.

Last December, the UN General Assembly held a symbolic vote on a thirteen-point resolution “to ensure that sexual orientation or gender identity may under no circumstances be the basis for criminal penalties, in particular executions, arrests or detention.” At the time, Bush officials did not support the resolution, citing legal technicalities.

However, at the the “Durban Review Conference” currently underway in Geneva, the new Obama administration has come out in support of a policy against “all forms of discrimination and all other human rights violations based on sexual orientation.”

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News - Georgia

An update on the recent condemnation by a Georgia lawmaker on “Queer Theory” classes in the Georgia State University system.

Inside ‘queer theory’, Southern Voice, Matt Schafer.

GSU professors defend sexuality research, Southern Voice, Matt Schafer.

Excerpts from the above headlines follow:

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News - Gay Sexual Health

Mounting HIV/AIDS rates among gay men in Asia, 365gay.com.

I posted on this topic already, referencing an article entitled “Gay men fuelling HIV/AIDS spread in Asia, says [World Health Organization].” Note the very different headlines; one is responsible and factual, the other inflammatory and presents a distorted view. This is part of the power that media has to shape conversation when it comes to issues relevant to the gay community.

The AIDS virus is spreading rapidly among gay and bisexual men in Asia as younger people shun condoms and authorities fail to increase awareness of the disease, health officials said Friday.

The epidemic will worsen dramatically in coming years unless there is better education and stronger political will to combat the disease, warned Massimo Ghidinelli, the World Health Organization’s regional adviser on HIV/AIDS.

News - Utah

Comments about gays cost Sen. Buttars his chairmanship, KSL.com.

Utah State Sen. Chris Buttars, R-West Jordan, has been removed from a Senate committee because of anti-gay comments he made that became public this week. Senate President Michael Waddoups says he decided to take the action because of public pressure, but at the same time he affirmed Buttars’ free speech rights.

Buttars isn’t backing down, even as Senate GOP leaders announced his punishment. In a statement posted online, Buttars says he disagrees with the censure, but he’s a “grown man who can take his knocks.” Senate President Michael Waddoups took him off of the senate judiciary committee.

Even in the face of what amounts to a demotion, Sen. Buttars is not apologizing and his supporters don’t think he has anything to apologize for. At the same time, his critics are angry. They want more severe action against Buttars, even for him to quit the Senate.

Via Towleroad.

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Talking Points - Terminology: “Christianism” and “Christianist”

While there’s some debate who coined the terms originally, it’s pretty clearly Andrew Sullivan who’s brought them into the modern conversation about religion and politics.

His basic definition splits Christianity into the Christian faith as spiritual experience versus a Christian-identified political imperative:

the critical distinction between a Christianist and a mere Christian. One wants to infuse politics with religion; the other wants to respect both, separately, and to keep religion private. I should add I do not want to banish the word “God” from the public square. But I do want that invocation to be as thin and as empty and as formal as the Founders intended. (1)

That wasn’t the first time he used the term, however. He originally defined the idea in an essay for Time Magazine, in which he described its meaning in greater detail:

So let me suggest that we take back the word Christian while giving the religious right a new adjective: Christianist. Christianity, in this view, is simply a faith. Christianism is an ideology, politics, an ism. The distinction between Christian and Christianist echoes the distinction we make between Muslim and Islamist. Muslims are those who follow Islam. Islamists are those who want to wield Islam as a political force and conflate state and mosque. Not all Islamists are violent. Only a tiny few are terrorists. And I should underline that the term Christianist is in no way designed to label people on the religious right as favoring any violence at all. I mean merely by the term Christianist the view that religious faith is so important that it must also have a precise political agenda. It is the belief that religion dictates politics and that politics should dictate the laws for everyone, Christian and non-Christian alike. (2)

A subsequent blog post adds a layer of nuance. It’s not just the difference between leaving one’s religious belief out of politics or not, it’s about the fundamental way that belief interacts with the uncertainties and diversities of the world:

The thing about fundamentalism, though, is its totality. There is something in the fundamentalist psyche that not only demands complete submission to a certain “truth”; but subsequently a frenzied effort to remove and obliterate all threats to that truth - because it has become so psychologically important for your own spiritual survival. Doubt, in this view, is not a goad to faith, but a terrible threat to it - so doubt must be eradicated. That inevitably leads to the empowerment of government for the pursuit of Christianist ends, and to the loss of empirical prudence in governance. (3)

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(1) Sullivan, Andrew. “The right and religion.” The Daily Dish. 14 December 2007. http://andrewsullivan.theatlantic.com/the_daily_dish/2007/12/the-right-and-r.html (retrieved 19 December 2009).

(2) Sullivan, Andrew. “My problem with Christianism.” Time. 7 May 2006. http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1191826,00.html (retrieved 19 February 2009).

(3) Sullivan, Andrew. “Christianism, Debated.” The Daily Dish. http://andrewsullivan.theatlantic.com/the_daily_dish/2006/05/christianism_de_3.html (retrieved 19 February 2009).

Talking Points - Leave Civil Unions to the Government, Marriage to the Churches: Two Points of View

The idea is that civil marriage and holy matrimony, because they’re two different things, should be parsed out separately.

Government can handle one, equally for both straight and gay couples, by providing civil marital benefits (regarding inheritance, taxes, hospital visitation & medical decision-making, etc) to anyone who wants them. Meanwhile, churches can handle the other and deny marriage to whomever they want.

In many ways, it makes sense, but it also creates whole new complications. Another consideration: is it really a solution to the problem, or is it just trying to sidestep the problem altogether?

Two essays explore each side of the issue.

  • First, from Terry J. Allen: “Forget marriage — civil unions for all.”
  • Then, Beth Robinson of Vermont Freedom to Marry offers a response to this line of thought.

Allen, Terry J. “Forget marriage — civil unions for all.” In These Times. 12 February 2009. http://www.inthesetimes.com/article/4196/forget_marriagecivil_unions_for_all/ (retrieved 19 February 2009).

Making your marriage sacred should be between you and your goddy thing.

Making your union legal, on the other hand, should be between you and state-guaranteed legal and human rights. And it should be available to any two people, gay or straight, in whatever configuration: Mother and son, grandparent and grandkid, mother and daughter, and best friends should all be able to form legal couples that enjoy the rights, privileges, financial benefits and responsibilities now assigned to marriage. (Calm down Rev. Rick: Only two people, no pets allowed.)

America’s current marriage system, even when it includes same-sex couples, inherently discriminates against millions of people who are not in a sexual relationship. (That many legal marriages are platonic only adds irony to injustice.)

The state’s job, then, would be to assign benefits, if any, to couples, but not to define who can enter into coupledom. There is no rational, as opposed to religious, reason why any two people shouldn’t be able to form a civil union that carries the same rights as marriage: to pass on and inherit property, make decisions for the sick, visit inmates and get discounts on Carnival cruises.

Irrational fear and religion (but I repeat myself) underlie the state’s stance that it can assign secular rights to a sacred institution designed for sexual partners—and can exclude platonic couples. But really, would the legal right to shared Social Security benefits so excite two heterosexual women that they would turn lesbian? Would allowing two brothers to share medical benefits inspire them to acts of incest?

Or would, God forbid, too many people get health benefits and share incomes and resources?

Robinson, Beth. “The state of the marriage business.” Vermont Freedom to Marry: Beth’s Blog. 19 February 2009. http://www.vtfreetomarry.org/2009/02/beths-blog.html (retrieved 19 February 2009).

Beth from Vermont Freedom to Marry offers a great response to this line of thought:

Why not “just get the state out of the marriage business?”

If I had a penny for every time someone said, “I think we should just get the state out of the marriage business and have civil unions for everyone; let’s leave marriage to the church!”

In an academic sense, it’s an interesting view, worth discussing and analyzing. But in the real world we live in here and now—and in particular, in the context of our current legislative work—it’s something of a dead end conversation for a bunch of reasons.

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News - North Dakota

LGBT protections added to ND human rights law in state senate, 365gay.com.

It’s interesting to read the language the bill’s Democrat sponsor uses when referring to the bill. “This bill will not provide North Dakota citizens special rights because of their sexual orientation.” However you have to package it to sell it, I guess, but still, the language at least subtly endorses the view that equal rights are somehow special rights when applied to sexual minorities. Great news overall, though.

In a bipartisan move the North Dakota Senate has voted to amend the state Human Rights Act to include gays, lesbians and transgenderds.

The measure now moves to the House.

The Senate voted 27 to 19 with 16 Democrats and 11 Republicans supporting the bill. Supporters say the strong bipartisan support will help the legislation in the House.

The law would protect the LGBT community from discrimination in employment, housing and credit. It does, however, have a specific exemption for religious organizations.

Celebrity News - An Oscar Statement About Marriage Equality

Anne Hathaway

Anne Hathaway

From Variety:

When stars parade down the red carpet at Sunday’s Oscars, it’s anticipated that at least a few of them will be wearing white ribbons.

While recent displays of such a fashion accessory stir very little controversy — red ribbons to mark the AIDS crisis, pink to symbolize breat cancer research — the white ribbons will symbolize support of same-sex marriage, one of the most polarizing issues in the ongoing culture wars.

According to Frank Voci, who spearheaded the WhiteKnot.org campaign, Anne Hathaway has said she will wear a ribbon, along with some members of the team behind “Milk.” (Sean Penn has a ribbon, but Voci said he’s been told that the star often doesn’t decide until the last minute). All of the major nominees have been sent the ribbons, along with “publicists and agents and studios and production companies, all with an extremely warm reception,” Voci said.

Via Daily Queer News.

Op-Ed: Calling the Christianist Bluff [in Utah]

From Andrew Sullivan at The Daily Dish:

Well, it served a purpose of a sort in Utah. The Republican leadership long insisted they were not anti-gay, that they were eager to find some legal protections for gay couples unable to marry, and were solely concerned with the “redefinition” of the word “marriage”. And every single bill to add some semblance of protection for gay couples and people was killed.

It’s not about protecting marriage; it’s about treating gay citizens and their relationships with contempt. At least Equality Utah has now proven that. And that is indeed a useful and clarifying thing.

News - Indiana

Via Joe. My. God.

Indiana’s Senate Republican Caucus voted this week not to consider a resolution that would have proposed amending the state constitution to define marriage as between a man and a woman. This vote means the amendment is unlikely to advance during this legislative session. The resolution would require approval by the Senate and House in two consecutive legislative sessions, and, if approved, would then go before the voters.

News - Georgia

Georgia court tells gay dad he cannot “expose” kids to homosexuals, Pink News.

A gay man in the US state of Georgia is disputing a child custody agreement restriction which prohibits him from “exposing his children to his homosexual partners and friends.”

Lambda Legal, a gay rights advocacy group, yesterday filed an amicus brief in support of Eric Mongerson at the Georgia Supreme Court.

The brief argues that restrictions on custody arrangements should not be determined based on sexual orientation and that no evidence exists that contact with gay acquaintances of their father is harmful.

Via Joe. My. God.